The Legacy Imperative Podcast

When Doors To Grandkids Are Shut?

Welcome to a new edition of the Legacy Imperative podcast, now with video! Join Jeff Ling, pastor from Northern Virginia, and Bob Peterson, the founder of Legacy Imperative, as they embark on a conversation highlighting a growing crisis among grandparents — the unanticipated barriers with their adult children and grandchildren.
Studies reveal troubling statistics: approximately 27% of people over 18 have severed family ties, and millions of grandparents have been cut off from their grandchildren. Surprisingly, conflicts between in-laws account for a significant portion of these tensions.
In this episode, Jeff and Bob delve into navigating these delicate family dynamics, emphasizing the importance of wisdom and prayer in reopening doors and hearts. They discuss the challenges evangelical grandparents face — from restrictions on discussing faith with grandchildren to larger cultural shifts affecting family relationships.
Listen as they share personal stories, insights, and practical steps to maintain connections. Whether addressing faith barriers or learning to communicate effectively with the younger generation, this episode offers guidance for those seeking to keep spiritual conversations and relationships alive within their family.
Discover more essential tools and perspectives for grandparents at legacyimperative.org. Subscribe, like, and share with others seeking hope-filled dialogues in their own grandparenting journey.

Battling Modern Influences: Protecting Our Children

In this engaging episode, Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson delve into the challenges of raising children in today's digital age. They address the critical issue of exposure to inappropriate content in schools and the role of social media in influencing young minds. Highlighting the importance of vigilance and proactive involvement, they explore how grandparents can build meaningful connections and impart values to their grandchildren. Additionally, they discuss practical strategies to safeguard kids from harmful influences and promote a healthy, balanced lifestyle.

Navigating the Digital Age: Trial by Social Media

Join host Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson, founder of Legacy Imperative, as they delve into the challenges and responsibilities of guiding the youngest members of society through the complexities of the digital world. With 40 million digital-native Alpha kids in the U.S., the influence of social media is unprecedented, often eclipsing traditional sources of learning like schools, churches, and families.
This episode explores the phenomenon of "trial by social media," drawing comparisons with historical examples of mob mentality and the spread of misinformation. Jeff and Bob discuss the crucial importance of understanding justice and due process in an era where news and lies travel at the speed of light.
They emphasize modeling truth and patience, encouraging open conversations about justice, law, and the potential surprises truth can bring. By fostering a commitment to understanding and truth, they guide listeners on how to positively influence the next generation, ensuring kids grow up in an informed and compassionate world. Listen in for thoughtful insights and strategies for grandparents and parents alike.

Navigating the Digital Age: When the Village Idiot Becomes the Expert

Join Pastor Jeff Ling from Clear River Community Church in Manassas, Virginia, and Dr. Bob Petterson, founder of Legacy Imperative, as they discuss the challenges and responsibilities of navigating social media in today's world. This episode explores the importance of truthfulness and healthy relationships, especially when engaging with younger generations.
They address the prevalence of misinformation and 'village experts' in social media, emphasizing the need for critical thinking and the dangers of spreading unverified information. The conversation highlights the Biblical call to truthfulness, encouraging listeners to model discernment and wisdom in their interactions online and offline.
Discover valuable strategies for fostering open communication and trust with children and grandchildren while resisting the urge to share unverified stories. This heartfelt dialogue invites you to reflect on the impact of your digital footprint and the legacy of truth you wish to pass on.

Death by Social Media… It’s not the schools, the library, TV, or movies.

Join Jeff Ling, pastor of Clear River Community Church, and Dr. Bob Petterson, founder of Legacy Imperative, as they discuss the pervasive influence of social media on younger generations. In this enlightening episode, they delve into the challenges posed by unchecked information and the cultural shifts driven by these platforms.
Learn practical strategies for grandparents to connect with and guide their grandchildren amidst the digital chaos. From creating social media-free zones to sharing compelling family stories, discover ways to foster genuine conversations and impart timeless truths.
Ultimately, the conversation highlights the importance of modeling positive behavior and prioritizing spiritual connections, ensuring that the core message of faith and the path to salvation remain at the heart of family discussions.

Why Don’t People Think the Way I Do?

In a world of hot takes and cancel culture, let's make 2025 the year of understanding. 🌟
Key takeaways from today's Legacy Imperative podcast:
• Seek to understand before being understood
• Ask questions instead of making statements
• Treat everyone as precious in God's sight
• Practice patience in conversations
Remember: 'God gave us two ears and one mouth for a purpose.' - Puritan wisdom
How will you listen more deeply this year?
#LegacyImperative #ListenFirst #UnderstandingOthers #BridgingDivides #ChristianLiving"

"One Day Closer: New Year Reflections with Dr. Bob and Pastor Jeff"

"As we step into the New Year, let's make resolutions that truly matter! 🎉
Pastor Jeff Ling and Dr. Bob Petterson remind us:
✝️ Remember we're one day closer to eternity
🙏 Make commitments by God's grace, not our own strength
👪 Keep promises to our grandchildren
💪 Take care of our physical and mental health
🌟 Stay engaged with younger generations
🦁 Lift up the Lion and the Lamb, not political symbols
🏠 Live as citizens of heaven, not just earth
'I want this year to be an ambassador from heaven, bringing the message of Jesus.' - Dr. Bob Petterson
What's your most important resolution this year? Share in the comments! 👇

"Resist the Grinch: How to Celebrate Christmas with Grace"

🎄 This Christmas, let's remember: Jesus was never the Grinch!
Dr. Bob Petterson and Pastor Jeff Ling remind us that while Jesus is the reason for the season, we shouldn't force Him into every moment. Instead:
• Relax and trust that God is in control
• Show Christ's love through your actions, not just words
• Be a source of joy and refreshment, not judgment
• Keep the welcome mat out for future conversations
Let's celebrate in a way that draws people to Jesus, not pushes them away. After all, He turned water into wine at a party - He knows how to bring the joy!
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas filled with love, laughter, and the true spirit of Christ. 🎅🏼✨
Thanks for listening!
Bob and Jeff